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A Note to the Ladies

If u wanna git wid me

You have to have respect for yourself. I can not validate you by letting you 'give me' a blow job. You will not be healthy and whole after the act simply because of it. I am sure it hasn't worked for you in the xx years since you started down this road. You will not win me into your home and hearth if that is the first intimate act you offer.

But if all you want do is jump my bones that is okay too. Just respect yourself first. Please.

These words feel harsh as I write them but they are true, at least with this male tailless monkey.

[Update] Just to be clear you don't need to be perfect, even in your self-respect. You can have moments of weakness as we all do.

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farquhar
Jun. 16th, 2005 05:55 pm (UTC)
'cause of the content or the form?
(Anonymous)
Jun. 16th, 2005 06:49 pm (UTC)
Good thing I offered you a full-body massage, instead ;)

And (ugh!) I cannot begin to imagine what mindspace a woman is in to make that sort of offer without an established intimacy. I'm trying to keep my misogyny under control and I read something like this and it makes me want to shake other women.

Kelly from Blogspot
philoserf
Jun. 16th, 2005 07:03 pm (UTC)
I love them all despite the things you despise in them. I am appalled at many things and understand even fewer. That said, I am working on my compassion, as I suspect you must.

There are reasons many women are they way they are. We are more animal than we care to admit. Yesterday I was noticing how women collect glances from everywhere. The men look and evaluate, the women look and evaluate. I could be invisible walking down the street--except when I am trying to be the peacock--while many, many women cannot.

I'd go on forever defending women in general and each of them individually too but I must earn a living.
philoserf
Jun. 16th, 2005 07:07 pm (UTC)
There is the matter of how the offer is made and who is making the offer. [salacious stare]
vodkalady
Jun. 16th, 2005 08:16 pm (UTC)
my two cents (no interest included)
after dictionary.com-ing "salacious"--
sometimes we can't help but forget our self-respect. it would help if more guys were like you, and didn't encourage it.
not that it's all their fault.
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